refactor: enhance Mux connection handling in server

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What this PR does / why we need it?

改进 HTTPS Mux 模式的运行逻辑
仅对http流量去匹配http mux服务，对于其他非http/https流量直接关闭，减少如果被扫的情况下浪费的。链接资源
http跳转服务尽可能检查来源是否来自于真人， 通过后进行 307 后立刻关闭链接，避免浏览器 keep-alive, 或者扫描器占用资源 （虽然开销很低）

修复 mux 模式下 为了包装 cmux 的 tls 链接导致 h2 失效的问题

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