When SHM enabled, enable transport_optimization (backport #1020)

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Description

Since #857 rmw_zenoh is using the same SHM segment than created by Zenoh when transport_optimization is enabled. While it checks if transport/shared_memory/enabled==true it doesn't check nor enforce that transport/shared_memory/transport_optimization==true.
If SHM is enabled and transport_optimization is disabled, SHM is not used and rmw_zenoh fallbacks to network transport.

This PR overwrites the config with transport/shared_memory/transport_optimization: true if set to false and SHM is enabled. An INFO log is also displayed.

Is this user-facing behavior change?

No

Did you use Generative AI?

No

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #1020 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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[ahcorde]

@JEnoch do you mind to take a look to the conflicts?